Chance are high that if you take a second right now and imagine yourself asking a girl out, you’re going to get those butterflies going crazy in your stomach.

And guess what? That’s totally okay! It’s natural. Even the most suave of guys who seem to crush it when it comes to dating still get those nervous feelings. What they currently have over you, though, is that they know how to ask a girl on a date. They know the secrets, tips, and tricks that drive their success rate through the roof, which can lower stress altogether.